Our life is the sum of all every-days combined. It is also the sum of all things we made and of all people we touched (literally and metaphorically).
Our life should not be the sum of all hours we spent complaining about something, it should be the sum of the hours we spend changing it.
Big change happens in little increments. You can write a 1000 page book in less than 3 years if you only write one page a day and skip good 30 days a year. But then who wants to write a 1000 page book? I am just saying, it is possible.
The trick for me is accepting what you can’t change and understanding what you can change. And just doing that. Because when we start to change things we end up accepting that we can.